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How much money is enough to support your lifestyle both now and in retirement? For blended families, financial planning can be especially challenging, as it typically involves integrating finances and adjusting to new financial goals. Understanding how much you need for retirement is crucial to maintaining the lifestyle you and your family desire.
Understanding Your Financial Needs
Many people continue working longer than needed because they don’t know how much they should save or are confined by arbitrary retirement ages, such as when they can claim Social Security or go on Medicare. Worse, some people miss out on things today because they’re overly focused on building a cash pile larger than they may need. It’s equally important to enjoy life along the way – kids going to college, weddings, trips with your family, or time away with your spouse.
To break this cycle, it’s important to clearly understand what you truly need and want from your retirement. Once you know how much is enough, you’ll be better able to answer the most common planning questions, such as:
- When can I retire?
- How can I finance college for my kids and stepkids?
- How much do I need each month to retire comfortably?
- How much do I need to save each month, and for how long?
- Do I need to downsize my home for financial reasons and not just for an easier life (less housework, less home upkeep)?
- How much risk do I need to take with my investments?
- How much extra can I spend in retirement?
- How much money can I gift to my family?
- Are luxuries affordable?
Creating a Shared Vision for Retirement
Planning for retirement is not just a solo endeavor; it’s a journey you and your spouse should undertake together. Having an open and honest conversation with your significant other about your retirement goals is crucial for ensuring a smooth and enjoyable retirement. Here are some questions to consider together:
- Where do you both want to live? Do you plan to stay in your current home, downsize, or relocate to a different city or country? Understanding each other’s preferences can help avoid conflicts and make planning easier.
- How often and where do you plan to travel? Discussing your travel aspirations ensures you allocate enough funds to enjoy these experiences together.
- What hobbies and activities do you both want to pursue? Aligning your interests helps with budgeting and time management, whether it’s gardening, golfing, volunteering, or learning new skills.
- How much time do you want to spend with your family, including children and grandchildren? Discussing these expectations helps in planning for visits, gifts, and possibly even living arrangements.
When you and your spouse share a vision for retirement, it significantly reduces stress and uncertainty. Knowing what to expect allows you to work together towards common goals. This alignment makes the financial planning process smoother, as it ensures your advisor understands both of your objectives, making it easier to develop a plan that meets your needs. Working together towards a shared retirement vision can ultimately strengthen your relationship, fostering communication, cooperation, and mutual support.
Balancing Present Enjoyment with Future Security
After establishing a shared vision with your spouse, the next step is to find a balance between living today and preparing for your future. This involves making thoughtful decisions that allow you to enjoy your present life while planning for financial security in retirement.
Prioritize Your Goals: Start by listing your short-term and long-term goals. Short-term goals might include taking a family vacation or purchasing a new car, while long-term goals could involve saving for retirement or paying off your mortgage. Prioritizing these goals helps you allocate your resources effectively.
Create a Flexible Budget: Develop a budget that accounts for both your current lifestyle and future needs. Include essential expenses such as housing, food, and healthcare, as well as discretionary spending for hobbies, travel, and entertainment. Ensure your budget is flexible enough to adapt to changing circumstances.
Plan for Unexpected Events: Build an emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses. This fund should ideally cover 3-6 months of living expenses and be easily accessible. Having a financial cushion can provide peace of mind and prevent you from dipping into your retirement savings.
Save and Invest Wisely: Aim to save a portion of your income regularly. Consider setting up automatic transfers to your retirement accounts and investment portfolios. Diversify your investments to balance risk and return, and consult with a financial advisor to ensure your strategy aligns with your goals.
Monitor and Adjust: Review your financial plan regularly and adjust as needed. Life circumstances, market conditions, and personal goals can change over time. Stay proactive in managing your finances to keep your plan on track.
Enjoy the Present: While saving for the future is important, it’s equally vital to enjoy your life today. Allocate funds for experiences and activities that bring you joy. Whether traveling, spending time with family, or pursuing hobbies, make sure you’re living a fulfilling life now.
Communicate and Reevaluate: Maintain open communication with your spouse about your financial goals and progress. Regular discussions can help ensure you’re both on the same page and can address any concerns or changes in your plans. Reevaluate your goals and strategies periodically to stay aligned.
Seek Professional Guidance: Working with a financial advisor can help you create a balanced financial plan. Advisors can provide personalized advice, help you manage risks, and help you keep your investment strategy on track. They can also assist in adjusting your plan as your life circumstances evolve.
Let’s Get Started on Planning Your Forever
Knowing how much money is enough for retirement is a critical aspect of financial planning. By taking practical steps and working with a financial advisor, you can create a plan that supports your desired lifestyle now and gives you confidence in your plans for the future. Clarifying your financial situation allows you to make informed decisions and address unexpected expenses and changes, further enhancing your financial security and overall well-being.
Take control of your financial future today. Assess your situation, define your goals, and make informed decisions to ensure you have enough for the retirement you envision. Do you know how much is enough for you? How confident are you about your financial planning? Complete our two-minute financial planning scorecard and see how you fare.
This article was originally published here and is republished on Wealthtender with permission.
About the Author
Brian K. Peterson, CFP®, CPWA®, MBA
Planning Built For Blended Family Life
Brian K. Peterson, CFP®, CPWA®, MBA
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