Every now and then, you hear about a couple with great potential for a strong relationship and a successful marriage. Then suddenly, they’re no longer together. The reasons vary, but more often than not, finances seem to play a big role.
For Egyptian and Arab communities, the process of marriage is often long and complicated, which makes sense, given the social norms and economic pressures families from both sides face. However, sometimes, it all comes down to nothing more than rigidity and lack of flexibility.
You may have come across stories where parental involvement in marriage decisions has caused things to fall apart. From choosing the location of the couple’s home to negotiating who contributes what from each family or finalizing ⁸the cost of the wedding ceremony, these issues often create tension.
While it’s reasonable to set clear expectations about financial responsibilities to ensure both sides are aligned, some cases go too far. The imposed rules can often feel illogical and create unnecessary complications.
Every marriage needs a fine line to distinguish between essential boundaries that protect everyone’s rights and those that only cause harm. That doesn’t mean compromising on what’s important to either partner but rather fostering mutual understanding. If you both genuinely align, there should be no room for such issues to disrupt your relationship.
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