Have you been feeling a shift in your friendship? Your gut feeling tells you something’s off, but you can’t exactly tell what it is. Maybe your friend is not as invested as you are, or they keep ghosting you with no explanation. Whether it’s recent or long-term, not every friendship is meant to last forever. Here are the signs you should look out for if you feel something’s wrong.
You’re Always the One Reaching Out
Are you always the first to reach out? Calling, texting, initiating plans that get turned down 9 out of 10 times? When that happens, it’s best to lay low for a while and see how they will react, if ever.
They Get Back to You at a Slower Pace
Your texts and calls go unnoticed for hours, days, maybe even weeks. Even if they reply instantly from time to time, they’re still not as consistent as you are. That said, it’s best to treat them the same way and match their level of interest/disinterest for your mental wellbeing.
They Cancel Plans at the Last Minute
Not only is it difficult to pin them down for a meet up, but they also don’t mind cancelling your plans short notice. Sure, it’s frustrating, but there’s no need to beat yourself up. There’s always someone out there who’s interested in enjoying your company.
They Don’t Stop With Their Excuses
Whether it’s “I’m very tired,” or “I’m super busy nowadays,” their excuses are endless. But no one’s that busy, right? If you’re worth someone’s time, they’ll always make time for you just like you do for them, even when you’ve got a lot on your plate.
They Don’t Include You in Their Plans
Your heart drops when you see them at a recent outing on Instagram. Whether you choose to remain silent or confront them, it’s best to set clear boundaries at this point. And remember not to be too hard on yourself; not all friendships are worth fighting for.
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